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Virginia did not give me any of the particulars on you and your husband, but whatever the age group, the situation is still the same. Your husband has this desire to cross-dress and you must be there to help him as you would if any other problem occured in your married life and you, as his wife, would be there at his side to help. This is the way I feel about this problem, if one chooses to call it that. I prefer not to, as it need not be a prob- lem

I love my husband very much. I married him because he was all the things I loved and desired in a man; not for the kind of clothes he wears or because he created a masculine image. The way I see it, one particular thing about a person, such as TVism does not make the whole picture black. You must look at the combined being. My husband is a good husband, good father and provider. and so inany, many other wonderful things I could say. So he likes to wear dresses! To me, this does not make him any less of a man. All of the other TVs that we have met are good husbands and fathers, who love their wives and families. They are not any sort of deviate.

These wonderful guys of ours have enough doubts and fears about themselves and everything else without our adding to it. Since this TV habit is so much a part of his life, I feel I must look on the positive side of it and help him where I can. We learned to start living with it and stop fighting it. The latter was getting us no where. We have experimented with make-up and styled the hair piece for his face. Getting the right style of clothing to make him look better is very important, especially for him.

Anything you do to help him, he will love you for more and more. I truly feel that this situation has br- ought us closer together and our bond of love is stronger. Many couples go through their entire married lives, mi- les apart.

Personally, I think that being a TV has many cont ributing advantages to our husbands' personality.. My husband knows what a new dress or some small item can do for my feminine morale. They actually understand us better than most other husbands. They are more sen-

sitive and compassionate.